Happy Birthday, Jack

It’s Jack Kerouac’s birthday today. I’ve said before that The Dharma Bums is not only my favorite of his books, it’s responsible for my hippie tendencies. (It’s also his happiest book. His others are hard for me to read because he’s so sad.)

Since it’s the book I know and love best, there’s no surprise that I have Dharma Bums in my head a lot, whether it’s looking at the mountains here and thinking “You know to me a mountain is a Buddha” or remembering this going up a trail in the forest:

We went on, and I was immensely pleased with the way the trail had a kind of immortal look to it, in the early afternoon now, the way the side of the grassy hill seemed to be clouded with ancient gold dust and the bugs flipped over rocks and the wind sighed in shimmering dances over the hot rocks, and the way the trail would suddenly come into a cool shady part with big trees overhead, and here the light deeper.

…it seemed that I had seen the ancient afternoon of that trail, from meadow rocks and lupine posies, to sudden revisits with the roaring stream with its splashed snag bridges and undersea greenness, there was something inexpressibly broken in my heart as though I’d lived before and walked this trail…

The woods do that to you, they always look familiar, long lost, like the face of a long-dead relative, like an old dream, like a piece of forgotten song drifting across the water, most of all like golden eternities of past childhood or past manhood and all the living and the dying and the heartbreak that went on a million years ago and the clouds as they pass overhead seem to testify (by their own lonesome familiarity) to this feeling.

Happy Birthday, John Steinbeck

This is from Cannery Row (my favorite) and is more than a little bit hippie:

On the black earth on which the ice plants bloomed, hundreds of black stink bugs crawled. And many of them stuck their tails up in the air. “Look at all them stink bugs,” Hazel remarked, grateful to the bugs for being there…”What they got their asses up in the air for?”

…”I don’t know why,” [Doc] said. “I looked them up recently–they’re very common animals and one of the commonest things they do is put their tails up in the air. And in all the books there isn’t one mention of the fact that they put their tails up in the air or why.”

Hazel turned one of the stink bugs over with the toe of his wet tennis shoe and the shining black beetle strove madly with floundering legs to get upright again. “Well, why do you think they do it?”

“I think they’re praying,” said Doc.

“What!” Hazel was shocked.

“The remarkable thing,” said Doc, “isn’t that they put their tails up in the air–the really incredibly remarkable thing is that we find it remarkable. We can only use ourselves as yardsticks. If we did something as inexplicable and strange we’d probably be praying–so maybe they’re praying.”

“Let’s get the hell out of here,” said Hazel.”

Happy Birthday, Wallace Stegner

Here’s my favorite quote from him (last posted in 2009; this blog is getting old):

“Homesickness is a great teacher. It taught me, during an endless rainy fall, that I came from the arid lands and liked where I came from. I was used to a dry clarity and sharpness in the air. I was used to horizons that either lifted into jagged ranges or rimmed the geometrical circle of the flat world. I was used to seeing a long way. I was used to earth colors–tan, rusty red, toned white–and the endless green of Iowa offended me. I was used to a sun that came up over mountains and went down behind other mountains. I missed the color and smell of sagebrush and the sight of bare ground.”

The Writer’s Almanac told me today that he started the creative writing program at Stanford, something I did not know. His students there included Larry McMurtry and Ed Abbey.

 

 

Birthday!

Enough with the introspection and intention-setting–it’s time to put a party hat on the swan and have a birthday today.
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Here’s a peek at the party decor, too (aka what I can do with two weeks off and Pinterest): IMG_2014

Good Birthdays Today

Today we have the birthdays of

  • Writer Gustave Flaubert (Madame Bovary)
  • Novelist Patrick O’Brian (the Master and Commander series)
  • Singer Frank Sinatra (“Old Blue Eyes”)
  • And sister-in-law Altair (friend, gardener, crafter, incredibly patient wife to my brother, and awesome mom to Skyler)

Happy birthday, Altair!

Happy Birthday To My Brother

It’s my big brother’s birthday today. What do you say about someone who’s always been part of your life? He loves anything mechanical and won’t watch demolition derbies because he feels bad for the cars getting smashed. He has really good taste in movies and also teaches me words about cartoons. He’s a great cook and a super-patient stay at home dad and he will threaten anyone giving his loved ones a hard time. And he lights fireworks with a blow torch:

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Happy birthday!

Happy Belated Birthday, Mary Oliver

It was poet Mary Oliver’s birthday yesterday. Here is a poem about being resigned to fall, which I could use some help with:

Lines Written in the Days of Growing Darkness

Every year we have been
witness to it: how the
world descends
into a rich mash, in order that
it may resume.
And therefore
who would cry out

to the petals on the ground
to stay,
knowing, as we must,
how the vivacity of what was is married

to the vitality of what will be?
I don’t say
it’s easy, but
what else will do

if the love one claims to have for the world
be true?
So let us go on

though the sun be swinging east,
and the ponds be cold and black,
and the sweets of the year be doomed.

Happy Birthday To My Dad

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It’s my dad’s 66th birthday today. Planning this post, I debated what to write about him: His refusal to take the easy way out and his unfailing morals (also known as “the cowboy way“)? His love of books and knowledge? His incredible skill as a craftsman, as shown in basement storage (and surprise wine racks), bird gazebos, garage shelving, pergolas and decks, and so many more things he’s made?

Those are the obvious ones, and the valuable ones, and the ones I enjoy the benefit of every day. But here’s something else: My dad is a delightful person.

He can pull out an old song or pop culture reference and make a joke (that may or may not involve a pun) for any situation. He watched Animaniacs with me every day after school and has the score of The Music Man memorized . He calls my pergola “Timberhenge” and money “fun tickets.”  He took a class to learn how to make balloon animals for my nephew Skyler. He is shy and funny and self-effacing and so, so smart and he is always willing to help his family or make Skyler smile. Delightful: “Causing delight; charming.”

It’s a little blurry,  but I think Skyler is expressing all our feelings here:
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Happy birthday, Dad!

 

(Yes, that is a birthday pie at the top. Dad and I request birthday pies instead of cakes.)

Manly Writers’ Birthdays

The past few days gave us three birthdays in a row of some manly writers:

  • Papa Hemingway on July 21
  • The cowboy of despair, Cormac McCarthy, on July 22
  • And my man Raymond Chandler yesterday, July 23

I think Chandler gets the honor of the quote today (from Farewell, My Lovely):

“I needed a drink, I needed a lot of life insurance, I needed a vacation, I needed a home in the country. What I had was a coat, a hat and a gun.”